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BREAKING THE CYCLE

Providing support, encouragement and resource information for those that have been/are in abusive relationships. Helping to get out of, and move forward past the grips of abuse.

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What is domestic violence?


Domestic violence, or intimate partner violence, occurs when one person causes physical or psychological harm to a current or former intimate partner. It includes all acts of violence within the context of family or intimate relationships. Besides being the leading cause of injury to women in the United States (a woman is beaten every 15 seconds), it is an issue of increasing concern because of its negative effect on all family members, especially children.


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Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behaviors in a romantic relationship or between family members. This may include abuse by a boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse or parent. The abusive behaviors can include physical, sexual, verbal and/or emotional abuse. Often, an abusive partner uses abuse to have power and control over their victim. It’s a serious problem that affects all communities.

What Do I Need to Know?
Because every relationship is unique, domestic violence can take many forms. The types of abuse may range from verbal attacks and controlling behaviors, to physical and sexual assaults. It is important to remember that everyone deserves to be in a safe and healthy relationship, free from violence and fear.

It may be hard to recognize the early warning signs of abuse, and often the early incidents of abuse are minimized. Usually domestic violence is not a one-time incident and many find that the abuse occurs in a repeating cycle of violence. Each act of abuse may be followed by an apology, or the abusive partner may blame others for the abuse. As the relationship continues, the abuse may get worse and occur more frequently.

What Can I Do?
The impact of domestic violence is felt by everyone, but you can make a difference.

If you are experiencing abuse, talk to someone you trust and consider getting help to end your relationship safely.
If you are abusing your partner, take responsibility for ending the abuse by getting help for yourself.
If you know someone experiencing abuse, educate yourself to be an important source of information and support.


Take action in your community by speaking out about the fight to end domestic violence.

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Discussion Forum

Helping our Teens to Break the Silence

Started by Chelsealya Payne Mar 24, 2011. 0 Replies

Every year, more and more of our young people are in domestic/partner abuse situations - both the victim and the perpetrator.  Many, unfortunately, suffer in silence - and this goes on into adulthood…Continue

Tags: boys, girls, parents, maturity, women

There's Light...

Started by Chelsealya Payne Mar 9, 2010. 0 Replies

My story in not unlike many others. I was young, and fell into a very toxic and manipulative relationship that turned into a miserable abusive relationship. One clear advantage that I have is that I…Continue

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Comment by Chelsealya Payne on April 7, 2010 at 9:39am
"Other people's opinion of you does not have to become your reality."
Les Brown
Comment by Chelsealya Payne on April 1, 2010 at 3:50pm
When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.
Helen Keller
Comment by Chelsealya Payne on March 16, 2010 at 9:33am
"If you have made mistakes, there is always another chance for you. You may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing we call 'failure' is not the falling down, but the staying down. "
~ Mary Pickford
 
 
 

 





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